I need the love today.

2011-03-16

I need the love today.

I woke up feeling rather down this morning. I’ve seriously had it with waking up alone. I’m reduced to a puddle of tears this morning.

So I log on here but there is nobody here… I no longer track who visits, as per which person visited as it I don’t care who visits… just say HELLO!!!! My counter shows increased visits but my comments are minimal make me feel I may as well just password protect posts for the few that visit and we can have private tea parties all day long.

All we need is love….. and comments you know.

Love

Wenchy.

In Internet culture, a lurker is a person who reads discussions on a message board, newsgroup, chatroom, file sharing or other interactive system, but rarely or never participates actively. Research indicates that “lurkers make up over 90% of online groups” (Nonnecke & Preece 2000). – From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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In September 1997, “The Nocturnal Wenchy” started her blog. The blog remains painfully real but these days she is more of an intermittent Blogger! 😉

33 responses to “I need the love today.”

leon

Mar 16, 2011 at 7:12 am

Morning! Hope the day gets real rosey for you!

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Fiona

Mar 16, 2011 at 7:40 am

This is my first visit….waves “hello”
I’ll try be back 🙂

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Elize

Mar 16, 2011 at 7:54 am

Hello 🙂

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Denise

Mar 16, 2011 at 8:11 am

Hi Wenchy

Hope you feel better during the course of the day !

D
x

(ps……I also have lurkers on my blog and know how you feel. Those readers share your intimate space…..I also recently put it out there “please comment !” as I was not sure if I was speaking to spam hits or all to myself !)

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F

Mar 16, 2011 at 8:26 am

Hi there…it possibly be one of the lurkers? I dont not mean to leave comments behind *u made me feel bad* it’s just that i know what u mean when u write ur thoughts and feel that we “vibe” when things are low. It’s not easy to wake up alone believe me I know hon..(p.s. is this comment pvt?)
I do think of you always…
p.p.s. i liked ur statement below re stepfamilies too…

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Wendi

Mar 16, 2011 at 8:31 am

Hello.

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Jen

Mar 16, 2011 at 8:37 am

Hi! Hope you feel better than earlier!
and wish all the mess would be sorted soon!

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Jenny Klass

Mar 16, 2011 at 8:56 am

Hello my friend, hope you have a better day…..

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Cybelle

Mar 16, 2011 at 9:31 am

Hello dear sweetheart! Do not fear for I am here!!! (And will add you to my blogroll 😀 )

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Gina

Mar 16, 2011 at 10:28 am

Hello hunny!
Soon soon soon you will be waking up next to your husband everyday!!!!

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Amy

Mar 16, 2011 at 10:29 am

Hi there

I’m a “lurker”. The reason why I don’t comment is cuz I’m extremely shy (yes, even under the anonymity of the internet) and don’t really have anything to say. I can’t really comment on your posts, since I don’t have any experience with any of the things you write about. I read your blog because it’s real and you’re an excellent writer and I love to know what’s going on in other people’s minds – and it’s good to see that I’m not the only one with struggles, and I admire you for dealing with yours so courageously.

I’m a lurker, cause i honestly just don’t know what to say. I’m no good with it.

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Kitty

Mar 16, 2011 at 10:55 am

Hi, baie sterkte vir die dag!!

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Karen

Mar 16, 2011 at 11:50 am

Hello, just me saying hi hope you have a good day.

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cassey

Mar 16, 2011 at 12:38 pm

Hey lady,

I get the comments feeling, but sometimes I’ve just got nothing to say :0 I hope your day is going swimmingly. 🙂

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MissT

Mar 16, 2011 at 12:43 pm

De lurked 🙂
Chin up, you are an amazing lady-with great tattoos!

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Julia

Mar 16, 2011 at 1:00 pm

xxx

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supermom

Mar 16, 2011 at 1:00 pm

Seriously 90 % of internet users are lurkers? Dis mos nou net sad.

Hallo Vriendin

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Meriel

Mar 16, 2011 at 1:24 pm

Hello missy – thank you for the tea I didn’t take even of the the cookies. x x x

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Ginger

Mar 16, 2011 at 3:04 pm

❤

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Beth

Mar 16, 2011 at 3:06 pm

Hi, I visit and don’t comment 😦 Sorry, but I never seem to have the right words. I don’t have my own blog but often wish that I did.

I enjoy the “realness” of your blog and am very jealous of your tattoos! Thats the first time I’ve ever admitted that to anyone!

Take care, hope you and your husband are living together soon, I understand all too well that “down” feeling.

xx

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Adele

Mar 16, 2011 at 3:08 pm

I wish you ALL the love in the world …

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blackhuff

Mar 16, 2011 at 3:41 pm

I feel just like you today 😦
Let’s have a tea party 🙂 Yay!

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Lesley

Mar 16, 2011 at 4:18 pm

Hi Hope the rest of your day was better.

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Another fan

Mar 16, 2011 at 5:18 pm

I read your blog when I have a few moments to spare and don’t choose NOT to comment, usually just pushed for time. I’m sorry if this upsets you but I’d rather read than not.

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Louisa

Mar 16, 2011 at 7:56 pm

Hallooooooo! *waves vigorously*

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vanessa

Mar 16, 2011 at 8:52 pm

❤

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shireen

Mar 16, 2011 at 9:04 pm

hugs

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Suzette

Mar 16, 2011 at 9:42 pm

K@k maar OK? Love

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SirNoid

Mar 16, 2011 at 11:23 pm

Hello Baby….. I always comment!!

So glad not to be a lurker…. that’s such an ugly word.

Reminds me of a bottom feeding fish?

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Ann

Mar 17, 2011 at 9:30 am

Hope today is much better 🙂

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cat@juggling act

Mar 17, 2011 at 1:26 pm

Ag here I am again -hope the day improves.

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only a movie

Mar 19, 2011 at 12:31 am

I don’t visit here often enough. I love your blog in all its incarnations. And I just noticed your reading list – I love Paulo Coelho. What fun it would be to skip across the globe and have a tea party. xo

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mandimadeit

Mar 25, 2011 at 1:18 pm

Hugs and kisses from a bad bad lurker girl…

x

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