Nocturnal Wenchy

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An ordinary day.

I promised to write my general daily routine during the week after reading Jaxie’s and Julia’s.

  • 5:30am my alarm goes off.
  • I get up anytime from then to 6:00am depending how motivated I feel, how stiff my body feels, if I am in pain, or how cold I am.
  • I brush my teeth. I am obsessed. If I wake up during the night, I brush my teeth… I easily brush my teeth twice before I leave for work.
  • I take a variety of prescribed medication.
  • Generally, I wake the kids at 5:45am.
  • First Victoria…. I open her curtains, and touch her face, she stretches and asks me to turn the light on and usually gets on with it.
  • Secondly Liam…. I touch his body which generally has very little clothing on… he pretends to get a fright every single morning when I wake him. I open the curtains and he starts complaining.
  • Thirdly Kevin… I walk in, open his curtains and tell him to get up. He generally reaches for me and squeezes my hand and says “hello mommy”.
  • Walking back, I wake Liam a second time and literally pull the covers from his bed or he doesn’t get up.
  • I go downstairs and make tea/coffee for the kids and I. (Noid is usually still asleep at the time that we leave).
  • I set out the lunches with treats and drinks for the kids and add Liam’s meds in his lunch box.
  • Sometimes I throw in rice cakes and a cool drink for myself… sometimes I leave a packet of sweets on Noid’s window wiper of his car.
  • I take out various yoghurt, fruit and cereals for breakfast or occasionally I will cook oats porridge, or scramble an egg depending how SuperMom-sih I feel and call the kids for breakfast.
  • I give Liam his morning meds. He protests and tells me how when he is big he won’t take meds. I get irritated and usually says something really helpful like ‘grow up to be an axe murderer if you wish, just swallow this now’.
  • I go upstairs and bath. Usually use the Tranquil Body Treats Grapefruit range in the morning.
  • Not the most adventurous of dressers I am ready pretty quickly thanks to a Brazilian blow out, always wearing the same jewelry and wearing mostly black clothes.
  • I apply foundation, lipstick and mascara and find glasses with a matching frames to what I am wearing.
  • I check on Liam to see if he has gotten dressed, brushed his teeth…. hasn’t climbed back in bed.
  • I again remind the kids to eat breakfast and drink their tea/coffee.
  • In the old house I use to give them tea/coffee in bed but I can’t walk upstairs carrying so many cups so they must come downstairs now.
  • I check that they packed their lunches. Usually Liam has forgotten and Kevin doesn’t want lunch anymore and eats it when he gets home. Liam may also not like what he got that day and then proceeds to either ‘steal’ a treat from one of the other kids or swap depending if he thinks they saw him or not. Hugely an argument at this point follows.
  • Kevin and I aim to be in the car by 6:40am for the school run. Kevin detest being late for anything and is very punctual and will tell you each day how much earlier or later you are than the day before.
  • I drop Liam first who gets out waving, shouting he loves me and walks like a delinquent across the road – basically like he owns the place.
  • Kevin is minimalistic and carries as little as possible. He will mumble something like cheers, love you, and have a nice day while rocking his head to whatever is playing in his earphones.
  • Victoria’s school is much further so we have more time. She who talks nonstop from the moment we drop Kevin. Sometimes we sing songs only the two of us like or she talks.Victoria always has the most bags and crap that she carries around and takes her time getting out, saying she loves me, not to forget to fetch her after school and to go kick butt at work.
  • By 7:30 I am on my way to work – listening to either 702 or country music.
  • Depending on traffic I will be there around 8:00 / 8:15. I always look for Jaxie’s car.
  • I unpack my laptop, log into the network and phone and banter with the people around me, generally keeping them from working, but in my defense they usually at least laugh.
  • I start working.
  • Back at home, Elisa our housekeeper should be arriving for work round about now…. to clean the house, wash and iron the clothes, put out school clothes for the kids for the next day,change bedding, accept deliveries and  occasionally I ask her to cook rice or mash potato or something and she prepares lunch for the kids for the next day.
  • My friend Mercia (QB) and I usually have coffee just after 9:00 while we talk crap, cry, or laugh.
  • …. then we work.
  • Sometimes I eat something from the trolley that comes round or the rice cakes in my drawer. I am not very good at packing lunch for myself or remembering about breakfast.
  • At 1pm I pack up and leave work for the school run. I usually feel a mixture of relief and exhaustion at this point.
  • On my way home I fit in as much as I can (pick up post, go to the pharmacy, buy bread and milk, put petrol in my car, have a blood test lol, whatever) before I pick up the kids. I have only 15 minutes so it has to be fast.
  • Victoria is fetched first. Usually you have to hoot, wave, act like a mad person to get her attention. She is the queen of chat.….
  • She talks all the way to Kevin school where we once again wait… I bbm him and he will explain why he is late. Usually only 5 minutes, but still.
  • We get to Liam’s school where he waves at us, introduces us to friends sitting on the pavement, tells his friends one day I will have a new car and complains about something as soon as he gets in the car. Generally he asked if I got a call from school, that it wasn’t his fault, makes sure to tell me he has already done his homework or has no homework. Oh and tells me to turn the music down ‘cause he is talking and asks almost daily if we can go out for lunch.
  • When we get home, between 2:30 and 3pm depending if anyone had extra lessons, detention etc the kids all run to the bathroom. All three have an issue with using bathrooms at school and refuses…. Thankfully we do have three toilets.
  • I generally drag myself upstairs, set up my PC and start working again immediately.
  • Kids helps themselves to something for lunch ranging from left over’s from the night before, a cup of soup, 2 minute noodles or a toasted sandwich.
  • Victoria or Liam will offer to make me tea, depending if they want something from me or not.
  • Victoria and Liam do homework…. I work in between helping with spelling and so on… and Liam well, he argues about not having any homework to do. Usually I recommend studying then for an hour or two at which point he tends to remember some or other lost piece of homework he had.
  • At 4pm Elisa leaves for the day.
  • Sometimes late afternoon I may have my nails done, or my eye brows waxed…. or colour my hair…. I go to Weigh-Less once a week… and sadly, have not exercised in weeks. 
  • On the weekends the kids go to their dad I make sure their bags are packed proper and they waiting downstairs, bathed, hair washed, teeth brushed – the works.
  • Round 4h30pm Victoria and Liam head for the park or riding bikes around the estate. Something they would never have been allowed to do at our old place. I so love living here.
  • I work till about 5pm before I go looking for what to cook for supper. Kev use to help out lots with cooking but these days he studies.
  • I carry my phone with me and answer mails as I cook. I hate feeling like I am not on top of things at work.
  • I close all the curtains downstairs and lock the back door.
  • Once dinner is cooking /baking/boiling I go back upstairs and work some more.
  • Victoria and Liam are home round 5h30pm at which time the bath routine starts.
  • Kevin does his own thing, homework, bathing, watching TV and I don’t micro manage him. He kicks ass academically, he comes home from parties and doesn’t do anything hugely bad, so I trust him to be proper and he doesn’t really have a bed time anymore.
  • There are nights (especially chemo days) I have asked either Kevin to cook or Noid to pick up something for supper.
  • I set out the cups for the morning tea/coffee the night before.
  • I also set out the bowls and spoons and cereals for the next morning the night before.
  • Sometimes I bath again….. or check blogs/face book etc.
  • Dinner is usually eaten at 7h30pm. Noid doesn’t come home at a set time, so I try to coincide dinner with Noid’s homecoming.
  • We watch a TV program together while eating (yes, not very family life-like) and chat in between. Sometimes the kids watch with us, sometimes not, depending on the program.
  • I put Liam and Victoria in bed at 8:30pm.
  • Sometimes I may watch more TV with Noid and other times I will read in bed or bath or work.
  • When I come to the bedroom I put our electric blankets on.
  • Generally by 11:00 or so I am lights out. Noid often still watches TV when I go to bed.
  • I take a variety of prescribed medication so I wake up less like a stiff job.
  • My medication makes me sleepy which is great because without meds I don’t sleep….. regardless I still wake up a couple of times a night.
  • Always brush my teeth anytime I wake up and occasionally will check on the kids.
  • Not unusual for me to check face book, e-mails or twitter in the middle of the night….or even pay accounts if it is pay-day.
  • Then we do it all again tomorrow…… unless it’s a weekend with or without kids…. then it all changes.

10 responses to “An ordinary day.”

  1. OMG. Right now I am extremely glad I just have one little person and me to take care of. You go super-mom!


  2. I have just stumbled across your blog. What a great opener for me. Wow you must be shattered. Super mom is an understatement.

    Great blog! Looking forward to more.


  3. I LOVE LOVE this post. Will you mind if I do one on my blog as well?
    Thanks for sharing with us.


  4. Lovely to see everyone’s routines. I did one months ago, but a lot has changed since. I love that Kevin is sucha support.


  5. Being a mom is glamorous isnt it 🙂


  6. So fun to read about your life.
    I hope you are feeling ok today.


  7. No wonder you are so tired….LOL

    Super Mom and Super Wife!!


  8. We are both far too busy.

    BTW – I also look for your car when I get to the office.


  9. Gosh I have no idea how you find time to blog never mind do ALL of that. I feel like I don’t do half of that and don;t even get to blog any more! But then my life sux compared to yours! 🙂


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Mom to many, wife to SirNoid. Lover of water, walks in the shade and all things purple.

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