ѕнe’ѕ a ѕιlenт wallғlower – ѕaιd noвody ever!


Dear friends and interesting creatures,

My name is Wenchy. No surname. Think Cher… Madonna. They don’t need last names, why should I? Diva.

Naturally my parents did not look down at their gorgeous first born daughter and say.. “Ounooi, let’s call her WENCH but with a Y?  ” Bless.

My real and most proper name is beautiful and I have always loved it

I’ve been blogging for 19 years in September 2016 (yes, I started when you still coded a blog. I am clearly very old and also frail!) under the very windswept and exotic name “Wenchy”. As life online exploded, I continued using the nickname, Wenchy. Also tattooed on my body so nobody can get confused.

Just for the record…  #Selfies are nothing new children. It’s like sex.  Every generation claim to have discovered a new angle!  Pun intended.

I’m am the keeper of the picket fence of many colours. I’m married (serial bride I am) to @SirNoid, and Mom to many – in a very blended family.

We use the term “Mom” very lightly with hushed tones. I’ve come to the conviction watching other parental people that I am not a bake cookies from scratch kinda mom, I detest school events and my kids and I do attend gay pride.

That said, My husband says I collect children because I keep adding to #wenchyskids – I just see a world that needs a hug.

There is nothing you can tell me about marriage, divorce, parenting, planning a murder, apple orchards, step-parenting, x-people, maintenance (from both sides of the coin), puberty, noise, sex, reading, random Easter hat making, breast feeding, laughter, sports, school functions, exam nerves, chronic illness, birthday parties, boyfriends / girlfriends, psychologist visits, glitter, different personalities forced to play happy family, miscarriage, joy, varied parenting styles, empty nest syndrome – not even about elopement! I’ve done it.

Sir Noid and Wenchy Wedding Pic.jpg

I’m now a SAHW (Stay at home Wenchy). Oh do keep up! … One hand on a keyboard and another searching for pain or anxiety meds. All done with #Wenchytude

I am asked often when my book will be published. Seriously!  Yes, there is a book lurking inside me which I am finding both entertaining and excessively depressing to write. Well, that’s probably because I have lived a life worth writing about. Everyday has not been tea and cake you know. Somebody had a knife.

Anyone who takes one look at my African hips will realise I am not a fashion Blogger. 🙂 I blog about most topics and emotions. Adventures, thoughts and reviews alike.

I do mingle with the best of the best however. ♡ Probably because my Oupa Mike loved to show off a little!

I enjoy foodie events (always look at the cocktail menu first) , the performing arts (HUGE theatre fan), books (I own a library), movies (on the big screen), beauty products, spa treatments, getting out of town and often do reviews on these platforms.

Social Media came knocking… I answered, Strawberry Daiquiri in hand. We have been in love ever since.

I detest speaking on the phone, so for a prompt response, mail me at wenchy@mweb.co.za

I wish you enough,
Wεทchƴ¸.¸.  ҉¨

Wench Sig 2015.png


43 thoughts on “ѕнe’ѕ a ѕιlenт wallғlower – ѕaιd noвody ever!

  1. Julia says:

    Wenchy. I read your site religiously and have just returned from overseas to find its gone. I then looked around at Supermoms site and found your comment which led me to you!!

    How to I get to read your blog again. I was totally fascinated with your life ………….

    Look forward to hearing from you.


  2. Karen says:

    Hi I also read your website religiously and was bummed when I lost the connection. Found this again but now can’t read the pages. How can I access this or is it closed to outsiders. I promise I’m no lurker just enjoyed your writings.


  3. Myrtle says:

    Hi Wenchy – I have missed reading your blog. Hope you are well – have a great day and week. I am so excited to see my friend Broom Girl in just over 3 weeks! Love Myrtle


  4. ShutterJane says:

    Would love to read your blog again. Like I told you before, it was like an addiction


  5. Chris says:

    Same comments as above. I was a devoted reader of your other blog(s) and would love to be able to catch up on what you are up to.

    Mom of 3 in Seattle


  6. I am new to your blog but have loved reading what I have found so far. I was disappointed to find that many of the journal entries need a password. Do you not want outsiders to read your blog?


  7. M Tyrrell says:

    The coffee and biscuits look wonderful, but I can’t taste them yet. I’m a friend of BalancingAct; She has told me wonderful things about your blog, and recommended that I request the password to view your posts.

    May I?


  8. Jane says:


    Day 230/365 : All my possessions for a moment of time.

    In this photo you look like Claudia from Party of Five..


  9. Karen says:

    Hi I’ve asked before but not had a reply, would you please allow access to read your wonderful way with words and your experiences.

    I promise I’m no lurker just enjoyed your writings.


  10. Karen says:

    Please can I read your blog?


  11. Elize says:


    saw this and thought you might want to add it to your shopping list..

    They are audrey hepburn magnets..


  12. Elize says:


    Saw this book on Amazon.

    Switching Time: A Doctor’s Harrowing Story of Treating a Woman with 17 Personalities.

    I cannot imagine how it must feel, but I know you can get through the shit..

    It is a pity you don’t want to talk to me.. I don’t know what I have done wrong.

    I had such good times with you and i loved visiting. IT felt like home to me.


  13. Elize says:

    Sorry to hear about Oupa Mike.


  14. Sharon says:

    Hi! I found your blog via a comment you left for me on Flickr – and I love it. I love your photos, your use of poetry, your honesty, and your courage. You’re a beautiful, strong woman, an inspiration, and I look forward to getting to know you.


  15. Hanie says:

    Wenchy, thanks for the link-back to your blog and your comments on mine! Lovely place you have here and I will be back for more. The pictures all look so lovely and I am envious over the happy snaps of you and Noid. 😉 Hanie


  16. vanessa says:

    So glad to see you are blogging again 🙂


  17. Raven Muse says:

    Were we separated at birth?


  18. secretlifeofjane says:

    Thanks for stopping by my blog and commenting recently. I plan to dig in here to see what you are up to 🙂


  19. Fraser says:

    Hmmmm, just a midnight stalker popping in to say Hi whilst the sun shines…

    Awesome reading…


  20. exgf says:

    I just found you and so glad I did….. you’ll be seeing me around quite often 🙂


  21. Lesley says:

    Just found your blog and you first entry caught my eye and would like to visit again.


  22. reluctantmom says:

    I am a lurker, and not always good at leaving comments …. but I am always lurking around you …..


  23. diddy says:

    I R lurker baboon.
    Love your blog !


  24. Cindy says:

    and u are the perfect inperfect woman, mother, friend, wife, daughter and wenchy


  25. diddy says:

    So glad to have found a fellow human who also repeatedly brushes their teeth ! Thought I was alone……


  26. Mignon Dehning says:

    I am truly, truly loving your blog!


  27. QB says:

    I might be brilliant (so I have been told) in drawing up an agenda or even drafting business letter, but when it comes to leaving a proper comment on your blog … I suck!!

    But always now that I carry you in my heart. I cry with you and for you, especially when reading some of your blogs.

    I love our chats at work. I love sharing a tear and lots of laughter with you. I love sharing my life with you and that I can tell you something … And you totally get it!!

    I love your “excentric” ways … Like hugging random people, something I will never do. Hahahaha it always makes me smile.

    You have touched my heart and my life and I am thankfull for having you in it.

    Miss you my friend!!

    Random huggs and kisses just for you 🙂


  28. Gina says:



  29. Nes says:

    I am blog worshipping you from now on. You sound awesome 🙂


  30. SirNoid says:

    Love You


  31. Great List and Brilliant Images….


  32. Fairy Girl says:

    Absolutely BEAUTIFUL, so true all of it…..XOXOXOXO


  33. gaby darling says:

    Love this! I learnt a lot! 🙂


  34. Yay! Hi there Wenchy! Look forward to reading your blog in future, inca so relate on many aspects! You just sound a lot more brave than I am 🙂


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  36. Mrs FF says:

    Ha! This made me laugh but nothing really surprised me and yes you are a woman of contradictions. I would have thought you to be a tree hugger 🙂


  37. Mrs FF says:

    Ha! Nothing here really surprised me though I have to agree you a woman of contradictions. I would have thought you to be a tree hugger 🙂


  38. I every time spent my half an hour to read this web
    site’s posts everyday along with a mug of coffee.


  39. OnSabbaticalinSandton says:

    Once again, I really love the way you write!


  40. Taylor Trish says:

    Great blog. Thanks for sharing


  41. Flip man (did you see I didn’t swear!) Ek mis jou. This made me cry. I need to sit down (or lie in your bed) and talk about my life right now. It is seriously information/worries/stress overload. I live you. Jy weet dit. You are awesome. My soul mate. Altyd.

    Liked by 1 person

  42. DawnMFauls says:

    I am regular visitor, how are you currently everybody?
    This post posted at this site is genuinely good.


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